To Halloween I Go

So this year I have had 0 inspiration for Halloween. I'm not sure what it is, but I've been completely un-fazed by any celebration this year except for my birthday where everyone wore boots.

Kenny tells me I should be Edie Sedgewick while Willy can play my best friend Andy Warhol. The idea was neat and charming but I thought Edie would be playing it safe. I wanted to be scary this year. SCAAAARY!

Morticia Addams.

I think I will be Morticia Addams this year. It's not completely scary but I have her height, hair, long fingers and well, makeup can do the rest. All I need is a ghoulish black gown.

I have a long cotton dress, but unfortunately it's sleeveless. I may have to wear a long, black shirt inside it, or wear a huge or long shawl for the flowy effect.

Now I'm really looking forward to Saturday and dressing up to meet my friends. Razzaq said he'd go as Gomez and Kenny could do Fester. Willy could be Wednesday Addams. But I doubt Ken and Wills want to entertain our selfish whims. They might go as Mary Kate and Ashley Olsen. OR something fashionably messy.

So Rude!

Some people are so rude. I think there is a fine line between being funny and being rude. So far I have compared my life as a single person to that of my being a part of someone. Perhaps being 'myself' when I was single opened up many doors to many other open minds.

As I have come to realise and as I have seen in myself and other friends, the stuff that comes out of your mouth when you're single and the actions your body language automates are in no way intending to lead on, offend, or cause any drama. Therefore you aren't so careful with your freedom as a single person.

But when you into a relationship, all of that changes because you can't still be going around acting and exuding single-vibes! Change is inevitable whether you like it or not. And people change when they find a partner, as shallow or obvious as that may sound.

I feel that people around them should respect that they have another person in their lives to consider and thus drop the smart talk, the wandering hands, and so on. It's reasons like these that boyfriends cannot understand when a girl's friends begin making sexual jokes or sounding as if they want to date you. And today I'm not sure myself if what these guys say to me are just figure of speeches, funny statements, or suggestive words. I mean, I'd be off my hair follicles if a woman said something sex-objectifying to my boyfriend. In fact I'd hope and wish their friendship would just die.